I remember looking high and low for a tie for my sons one year cake smash pictures. I had such a hard time, but I finally found one. If you are having the same problem, I will save you some time, because I recently met the owner of the Etsy shop "mark it with a q", and she sent me a couple of her hand made bow ties for Ryder to wear, and they are so adorable! She has so many fabrics to choose from, and they are so easy to put on our squirmy little boys! She also makes bows and headbands for your little girls! They are great for dressing up, family pictures, or just a cute everyday look. I have been meaning to get some better pictures of my son wearing his, but I just wanted to get the word out there so you could hurry and get yours for the holidays!